Comfort Zone
“Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.” ― H. Jackson Brown Jr., P.S. I Love You You will be blessed outside of your comfort zone. Definition of the comfort zone / failure zone is the energy level and which a person normally and naturally operates. At this level this individual feels very neutral and is only use to specific behaviors and which seems to be natural thing to them. Living outside of you comfort zone is doing something you wouldn't normally do or getting out of your routine. A secure feeling is comforting an individual. The comfort zone is only a mental illusion used to place limitations on you life.
There was an expert salesman who owns a car lot and every time that he would hire a new salesperson he would make them sign the lease of a brand new Cadillac now if they wanted to work for him they didn't have the choice they had to take the Cadillac the Cadillac had a pretty pricey tag attached to it and so the new sales reps would always leave away with feeling confident and proud because they were in a brand new Cadillac and they got to drive around it every day it allowed their confidence to rain so in return they were able to perform an excel at selling cars because they had the confidence they had the experience and they knew all the benefits to those Cadillac’s all because the owner made them and forced them to take a rest “Change comes with sacrifice... When you want to make a change you must be prepared to make a sacrifice of escaping the comfort zone!” ― Israelmore Ayivor, The comfort zone is old, moldy and t always needs cleaning. Comfort areas are not as stable as you may think. You have the choice leave your comfort zone or with life changes you can be evicted unwillingly from that zone. It is very important to reach outside of you comfort zone because that alone will allow to grow and expand your nature. What to expect once you make the move? When we're introduced to new and interesting things, the glimmer fades so quickly. Things that used to feel intimidating now are as comfortable as home. “Comfort...was the key ingredient to making the prisoner crave the prison.” ― Ashim Shanker To step outside your comfort zone the individual must be willing to take a risk and try different behavior. In order to change your situation you must allow your mind to endure The Optimum Performance Zone. A man can be conceived by the examination of his comfort zone. This mental state of mind allows us to set up structure and boundaries in our lives. It allows us to set up brackets and limitations for our lives too. In return we can build a strong sense of security with a continual supply comfort. Individual will continue to receive the same neutral results without stepping outside of the comfort zone. In order to have confidence we must have different experiences so that we can grow. Having a comfort zone is definitely a limitation and it doesn't a little allow you to spread your wings so that you can grow. You're not allowing yourself to use life as an adventure or enhancer. There is very little excitement in your world because you tend to stick to your zone! You might feel overwhelmed or trapped being in that zone because you have been in it for such a long time. It may begin to irritate you at some point. Most definitely, it’s time to stretch those limits. It’s time to step out of your comfort zone. Its time to grow and its time to experience life in all of the abundance that it has to offer. It's time to actually live! In actuality you are always changing. Whether you want to change or not it is coming. Yes, you do have the choice either you can wait for it to come or you can trigger it to come out at you leisure. We think that we are not capable of doing anything outside of comforts “Trust me. If you do not decide where you are heading, and refuse to take the appropriate action, you will end up being shaped into what others would have you become. Then any change will not be made for your benefit but for theirs.” ― Chris Murray, How to step out of your comfort zone Let's Get Crazy Let's just be honest, the main reason why we do not act natural crazy selves in public or at work is because we are afraid of rejection. We are afraid of what people would think of us and how they would perceive us if they knew who we really are. If we are not received in a positive way then we may not make as much money as we would like. We may not contain or have the specific lifestyle that we expect. Also we may not find the right mate that is picture perfect for us. Now let's think about this. How can we really be happy if we are not able to be who we are inside? Why should we care about what people think? Do their opinions really matter? Are their opinions going to bring about a life or death situation? Impressions are everything we have to make ourselves stick out in people’s heads. In order to stick out you have to be yourself because there is something about you that is charming, intelligent and funny enough to crash a certain audience and keep a the people interested in you. So, let your light shine with those specific skills. Now, you can be true to yourself and you can expose your true character. Its’ time to get crazy and have some fun with life. Dare to be different. Dare to be you. Step outside of your comfort zone! Make life exciting Life should always be exciting you should always be waiting for the next great thing to happen to you. Your life was intended for positivity so, when was the last time that were so excited about anything? Now, if you're deep in your comfort zone then you probably will not experience this because nothing exciting or adventurous ever happens in the comfort zone. To experience this great feeling that comes from deep within and it is very sincere; you have to step outside of your comfort zone to make life exciting. Make yourself await the next great thing Not only will your life become more exciting, but you'll also build confidence and improve yourself “Coming out of your comfort zone is tough in the beginning, chaotic in the middle, and awesome in the end...because in the end, it shows you a whole new world !!Make an attempt..” ― Manoj Arora, Leave behind you comfort zone! Face Your Fears Head On “There is only one thing that makes a dream impossible to achieve: the fear of failure.” ― Paulo Coelho, The Alchemist Fear is a major barrier of the human life. Fear is never going to go way if we do not step out of the comfort zones. The only way to grow is to know. The only way to know is to experience. The only way to experience is to take action. The only way to take action is to create it in the mind. The only way to create the mindset is to plant a seed. The way to plant a seed is just to say that I am going to do it! I am worth more than staying at this level of life! I am ready to grow. I am going to have to take action and taking action is going to allow me to grow. If we want to continue with the same life that we've had up until now then we will continue to lives in our fears. We will continue to attract the same situations in our lives but if we bring in something new, something that we are afraid of, and something that does not allow us to feel comfortable then we will be introduced to our fears head on! Fear has a lot to do with our confidence. We have the capability to pump ourselves up enough to know that we can succeed. Are you too afraid? Do you have a poor self image of yourself? This poor self image enables you to I think of yourself as a failure. If you’ve had enough failure you can break away from the fear. Fears are only mental blocks that we set for ourselves. They are limitations that we choose to accept. “I must turn myself around so that I am able to view life as my prospects see it. Only then can I start addressing their issues, help to prevent their pain, and advise on solutions to their problems.” ― Chris Murray Have no fear. Step out on faith and go for it. Step out of your comfort zone. Love You How individual views himself is specifically a self image. The self image is just a mental picture basically saying how the person feels inside and that is how they perceive themselves. These qualities may include but not limited to gender, height, weight, hair color and race. The majority of it will include a knowledge or acceptance of what a person has learned about himself. These memories are there from someone else telling them something about themselves or a personal experience. Say Bye-Bye A lot of times we are very fearful because we know that by accomplishing just that one thing we can expose ourselves to you so much more. We are afraid to leave behind what we know, who we know and the things we do. We are afraid of leaving out of our comfort zones. We are afraid of leaving people behind and we are afraid of being lonely. The ultimate love is to love yourself and you can only love yourself if you feel that you are not a failure. You will not be a failure if you conquer your fears, but you will be a failure if your fears conquer you.“Comfort is your biggest trap and coming out of comfort zone your biggest challenge.” ― Manoj Arora,
― Pandora Poikilos Seek Disapproval We have to learn to actively seek disapproval in order to win in today's society. This means that we do things specifically for no other reason other then “being outside of our comfort zone’s.” Meaning we go in expecting nothing but to concur fear. We will consider ourselves the black sheep. Why should we be limited to live in “The box of approval”? Who makes the box of approval? We are here to break records! We are here to reach the sky! We are NOT here to stay in the brackets of others approvals! It is ok for us to be disapproved of. It is ok to take a chance, get messy and make mistakes. This world is full of great lessons to learn. The great part about getting disapproval is that you were not expecting anything in the beginning. You are just doing this as an exercise to step out of your comfort zone. Actually, you will find that you will win most of the attempts that you make. A few of them may be lost but out of the ones that is won you will get the full gratification because you went in with no expectations. You went in just planting a seed. You just wanted to practice stepping outside of your comfort zone. Now you are a winner! “The best way to develop people is to constantly get them out of their comfort zone.” ― Ziad K. Abdelnour Stop Procrastinating Please. Procrastinating it only makes things a little worse verses when we initially started. When we fulfill something that was on our procrastination list 9 times out of 10 we find out that it was not as hard as we predicted. We must learn from this lesson. Too often we allow ourselves to procrastinate and we push things to the back burner. When this occurs most likely our problem will gain power and it will become a fear once it is powerful. This fear will stay within the pits of our stomachs, it will be in our thoughts and it will take control of us. Make the change! Just do it. Take a deep breath and make the first step to leaving you comfort zone. Accept Yourself When things don't go your way, and they won't, shrug it off. If you're clinging to your comfort zone, you're hanging on to an idea that the world is supposed to be a safe, predictable place, and that's an illusion. You're setting yourself up for frustration and disappointment. Open your eyes. The world is a dynamic place where things go right and wrong. That's just the way it is! “Knowing others is intelligence; knowing yourself is true wisdom. Mastering others is strength; mastering yourself is true power. If you realize that you have enough, you are truly rich.” ― Lao Tzu, Tao Te Ching |